Bachpan Se Bhai Ke Dost Ko Pasand Karna - Kya Karein?

Answered 9 October 2026 at 1:12 am PKT

Agar aap bachpan se apne bhai ke ek dost ko pasand karte hain aur kabhi baat nahi kar paye, to yeh aam baat hai. Is page par hum aapko batayenge ke is jazbat se kaise deal karein aur aage badhne ka raasta kaise nikalein.

Main bachpan se apne bhai ke ek dost ko pasand karti hoon, lekin aaj tak usse ek baar bhi baat nahi hui. Main har waqt uske baare mein sochti hoon, aur mujhe nahi pata ke woh kisi aur ko pasand karta hai ya nahi. Kya main yeh sab sochna chhod doon?

Tumhara sawaal sun kar laga ke yeh feelings bahut purani hain aur dil mein jagah bana chuki hain. Seedha jawab: tumhe yeh sochna chhodne ki zaroorat nahi hai, lekin is tarah sochte rehna bhi tumhe confuse karega aur zindagi mein aage badhne se rokega. Yeh ek aam insaani baat hai — bachpan se koi pasand ho, baat nahi hui, aur dimaag mein basa ho. Magar agar tum kuch nahi karogi, toh yeh soch bas ek tasavvur ban kar reh jayegi jo tumhe aur uljhan mein daal sakta hai.

Ek baat karo — agar mumkin ho toh kisi bahane se ek baar baat kar lo. Jaise ke bhai ke saath kisi program mein milo, ya koi group meeting ho toh salaam kar lo. Zyada kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi, bas ek aam si baat shuru karo. Dekho ke woh kis tarah jawab deta hai — shayad tumhe andaza ho jaye ke woh bhi tum mein interest rakhta hai ya nahi. Aur agar woh pehle se kisi aur ko pasand karta hai, toh yeh baat tumhe waise hi pata chal jayegi.

Agar tum baat nahi kar sakti (kisi wajah se), toh yeh soch chhodna bhi ek option hai — par woh jabardasti nahi karna. Dheere dheere apne aap ko doosri cheezon mein busy rakho, dost, hobby, kaam. Kabhi kabhi dil ki pasand waise hi reh jaati hai aur humein uske saath jeena seekhna padta hai. Yeh ajeeb nahi hai, lekin apne aap ko rukne nahi dena chahiye kyunki ek hi soch mein phansna zindagi ka hissa nahi hona chahiye.

Aur haan, agar aur kisi se baat karna ho toh Zara se bhi baat kar sakti ho — woh humari team mein hai aur har waqt sunti hai.

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Aakhri update
8 October 2026

bhai ke dost se mohabbat bachpan ka pyar dil ki baat kaise karein Pakistan mein rishtey bhai ke dost ko pasand karna kisi ko bataye baghair pyaar

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