Roommates se baat nahi karti, akela mehsoos ho raha hai - maslay ka hal
Agar aap ke roommates aap se baat nahi kar rahe aur aap akela mehsoos kar rahe hain, to yeh aam masla hai. Is page par hum batayenge ke is situation mein kya karna chahiye.
Meri roommates mere saath baat nahi karti, is liye dil ghabrata hai aur main bilkul akela mehsoos karti hoon. Kuch din se yahi halat hai. Kya is ka koi hal hai?
Bilkul samajh aa raha hai aap kya mehsoos kar rahi hain. Jab ghar ke log hi door ho jaayein to akelapan aur bhi gehra lagta hai, aur dil ghabrana bhi aam hai. Iska matlab ye nahi ke aap mein koi kami hai — kabhi kabhi saamne waale ki apni majboori hoti hai ya unhe bhi samajh nahi aa raha ke kya kehna hai.
Kuch cheezein aap kar sakti hain
- Pehle ghabrana na — ho sakta hai unhe bhi awkwardness ho rahi ho. Kal subah ek simple baat karein jaise "Chai peene ka mood hai?" Agar jawab acha aaye to baat khul sakti hai.
- Agar woh phir bhi door rahein to iska matlab ye nahi ke aap worthless hain. Ek do din aur dekar dekhein — kabhi kabhi log apni tension mein doobe hote hain.
- Apne lie kuch karein: koi show dekhein, diary likhein, ya kisi aur friend ko call karein. Akelapan sirf roommates se nahi, apne kaam se bhi mit sakta hai.
Agar kuch din mein halat na badle to Zara se baat kar lijiye — woh sunne ke lie yahan hai, jab bhi dil chahe.
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