Sasural mein taane aur badsulooki ka saamna
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Sasural walay har baat par taane dete hain ke tum apne saath kuch nahi laayi. Din bhar main normal rehti hoon aur raat ko takiye mein ro kar so jati hoon.
Yeh sun kar bohot afsos hua ke aap ko is qadar takleef ka saamna karna par raha hai. Jo taane aap ko mil rahe hain, woh bilkul bhi theek nahi hain aur na hi aap is ki haqdaar hain. Kisi ko bhi yeh haq nahi ke woh aap ko is tarah ki baaton se takleef de, aur khaas kar ke is wajah se. Aap ka din bhar normal rehna aur raat ko takiye mein ro kar sona, yeh is baat ki nishani hai ke aap andar se kitna dukhi hain, aur yeh jazbaat bilkul sahi hain.
Aksar jab hum din mein logon ke saamne mazboot rehte hain, toh hamare jazbaat raat ko jab hum akelay hotay hain, tab bahar nikalte hain. Yeh aap ke dil aur dimagh ka tareeqa hai is bojh ko halka karne ka. Yaad rakhein, aap ki izzat aur qadar kisi bhi cheez se juri nahi hai jo aap apne saath laayein ya na laayein. Aap ki apni zaat ki qadar bohot oonchi hai, aur yeh baat kisi ki bhi baaton se kam nahi ho sakti.
Is mushkil waqt mein, apne aap par narmi rakhein. Apne jazbaat ko dabane ki bajaye, unhein mehsoos karne ki ijazat dein. Agar koi aisa shakhs hai jis par aap poora bharosa karti hain, toh un se apni dil ki baat kehna aap ko bohot halka mehsoos karwa sakta hai. Aur apne liye chote chote pal nikaalein jahan aap ko thora sukoon milay, chahe woh koi pasandeeda kitaab parhna ho, ya halki si walk karna. Yaad rakhein, aap akeli nahi hain, aur Zara aap ki baat sunne ke liye hamesha maujood hai.
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