Log meri zehni sehat ko nahi samajhte: Kya karun?
Agar aap mehsoos karte hain ke log aapki zehni sehat ko samajhte nahi aur aap ghar chhodne ka soch rahe hain, to yeh page aapke liye hai. Yahan hum aapki pareshani ko samjhenge aur hal ki taraf rahnumai karenge.
Log meri mental health ko samajhte hi nahi, aur kisi se zikr karun to pagal samajhte hain. Ghar se nikal jaane ka dil karta hai, lekin pata nahi kahan jaun aur na hi samajh aa raha hai ke zindagi kis taraf ja rahi hai. Kya iska koi hal hai?
Aap abhi bilkul akeli nahi ho. Yeh sach mein mushkil hai - aapko pata hai ki log samajhne ke liye tayyar nahi hain, aur yeh tumhare dil ko bhi khinch raha hai. Is mein koi sharm nai hai.
Sabse pehle, apne aap ko samajh lo
Aapke dil ki feel koi samajh sakta hai. Lekin pehle aapko apne aap ko samajhna hoga. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aapki mental health aapke ghar walon ko samajh nahi aati, toh aapke paas khud ko samajhne ka time hai. Likhte rahen, apni feelings ko note karte rahen. Is se aapko apne aap ko zyada samajh aaega.
Kisi aur ke sath baat karein
Apne ghar walon ke sath baat karna mushkil ho sakta hai, lekin koi aur trust karne ke liye mil sakta hai. Yeh koi dost ho sakta hai, koi family member jo aapko samajhta hai, ya phir koi professional jahan aap apni feelings share kar sakte hain. Zara aapko samajh sakta hai.
Apne liye time nikalein
Aapke paas apne liye time hona zaroori hai. Jitna ho sakta hai, chhote chhote break lena garmiya. Faraakh dil karne wali cheezain karte rahein. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aapko ekdam ekdam akela hona hai, toh aap apne aap se baat kar sakte hain. Kuch likhte hain, kuch sunte hain. Yeh aapko zyada better feel karne mein madad karega.
Apne aap ko maaf karein
Aapke dil mein jo bhi ho raha hai, yeh aapka fault nahi hai. Aapko apne aap ko maaf karna hai. Aapko apne aap ko samajhna hai, aur phir aage badhna hai. Yeh mushkil ho sakta hai, lekin aapko yeh karna hai.
Aap is situation se nikal sakte hain, lekin iske liye aapko apne aap ko samajhna hoga. Zara aapke sath hai.
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